Masked 'Friends'

Like it is not hard enough to make friends, considering the fact that we live in a world where you can't trust anybody. We live our lives being thought to love ourselves and no-one else. If you are not pretty or rich, you don't make friends (If you call people drawn to money as friends) that easily. Even being nice does not cut it these days because people will take advantage of you.

Putting all that aside, you go out meet someone you share something in common with, who is there for you. You spend time with them and as you go through life together and you get comfortable with them, you have become friends. I know how much friends mean to me so I value my friends. Friendship is when you argue, get angry at each other and start talking a minute later, hahaha Noodle. "Friends are God's way of making up for the families we have". Friends help take the burden when parents can't.

Suddenly, you are in pain...the person you have told your heart to and depend on turns on you. All kinds of things happen, ditching friends, backbiting, stabbing in the back, even thinking you are not cool enough to be introduced as their friend. The heck, everyone has been through one of this or even more. When I went through it, I cried and felt broken-hearted. I think I will find it easier breaking up with a guy than a friend so I forgave, though I can't forget. I laugh over it though, Life is too long and short for me to take it seriously.

You think that is bad enough till you meet manipulative friends. People who fake themselves into you Life and trusting and just use you. They normally use your 'friendship' for money and company when they need you. What does my head in is when they do something bad and throw the blame at you. Like Your life is not full of issues already. They are quick to point out the wrongs about you and make you feel like you are not worth it.

It is their insecurities that causes them to pick at others and make you feel bad so they look good. Blaming their wrongdoings on people is what gets me. No good friend will force a decision on someone so why would you do something and blame it on others. Even if they adviced you, they didn't force you to make that decision. How dare anybody blame someone else for their own mistakes. Friends don't harm themselves and blame it on you because they are having a hard time and you weren't there.

The way I see it I either stop here or I will just get ofensive. Friends are people we rely on so if you don't want that burden, don't lead people on just to use them. In my eyes people like that are evil!